10,500 miles is a lot for this vehicle honestly. The 2018 Sport we have now only has 16,000 on it, and the 2015 Sport we had beforehand only had 24,000 after 3 years. This is our third vehicle, something we drive when we don't want to take one of the other cars. It is not a daily.
As for the other stuff you said, I am not too sure where to even look and what to compare it with. Do you have a link where I can learn?